Episode 309

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19th Aug 2023

309: The 5 Fight Languages: Which one are you? - Lena Morgan

This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their conflict resolution skills and gain a deeper understanding of themselves. In this episode:

  • What are the the 5 Fight Languages
  • Understanding our "protective" AND "productive" reactions in a fight
  • What are "core wounds" and how do they impact the way we operate in conflict?
  • What to do if you shut down in conflict? If your partner does
  • The power of awareness in changing behavior
  • When to decline an invitation to conflict
  • Why it's helpful to understand your fight language when "fighting with yourself"

The 5 Fight Languages:

  1. Ignitor - Lights the match that can burn an argument down
  2. Amplifier - Let's their emotions get louder until they feel seen
  3. Negotiator - Elevates self into role of parent / teacher / counselor
  4. Analyzer - Looks for logic, reason, and facts in an argument
  5. Extinguisher - Escapes, refuses to participate 

Which one are you? Take Lena's free 5 Fight Languages Quiz 


SHOW NOTES: https://www.onairella.com/post/309-fight-languages 


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