309: The 5 Fight Languages: Which one are you? - Lena Morgan
This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their conflict resolution skills and gain a deeper understanding of themselves. In this episode:
- What are the the 5 Fight Languages?
- Understanding our "protective" AND "productive" reactions in a fight
- What are "core wounds" and how do they impact the way we operate in conflict?
- What to do if you shut down in conflict? If your partner does
- The power of awareness in changing behavior
- When to decline an invitation to conflict
- Why it's helpful to understand your fight language when "fighting with yourself"
The 5 Fight Languages:
- Ignitor - Lights the match that can burn an argument down
- Amplifier - Let's their emotions get louder until they feel seen
- Negotiator - Elevates self into role of parent / teacher / counselor
- Analyzer - Looks for logic, reason, and facts in an argument
- Extinguisher - Escapes, refuses to participate
Which one are you? Take Lena's free 5 Fight Languages Quiz
SHOW NOTES: https://www.onairella.com/post/309-fight-languages