Episode 395

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1st Jan 2025

395: Break unhealthy habits: Stop the cycle of shame & anxiety through DBT - Maddy Ellberger {REPLAY}

We want to change our habits, we often know what to do... why can't we do it? How can we really enact the changes we want for ourselves? DBT might be the way. 

Maddy Ellberger shares how Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) works to help us break unhealthy cycles and create the life - and the habits - we want. 

From over-drinking/ spending/ eating/ working to anxiety to caring for ourselves... we talk about DBT tools that can be applied to ANY lifestyle change we want to make.

SHOW NOTES: www.onairella.com/post/395-behavior-change {REPLAY}

Timestamps

[00:01:09] What is DBT? 

[00:04:01] The key tenets of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

[00:09:02] What is the function of the behavior?

[00:12:28] How to ride out the storm of anxiety

[00:14:47] Improving our distress tolerance

[00:17:37] Managing anxiety through DBT

[00:20:48] Ella’s current challenge: consuming instead of creating

[00:24:29] Creating an action and accountability plan

[00:28:23] Avoidance behavior and its function

[00:31:47] Creating an environment for success

[00:34:11] The tool of “coping ahead”

[00:37:10] Dialectical thinking and our desire for validation

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ON AIR WITH ELLA | women's wellness, mindset, motivation
On Air With Ella is for women who want to feel better, look better, live better - and have more fun along the way. Ella shares simple strategies & tips for living a bit better every day. If you’re interested in mindset and wellness, healthy habits and relationships, or hormone health, peri menopause, aging well and eating well, then you’re in the right place. Read the reviews and join us - you're only 35 minutes away from living better.
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Ella Lucas-Averett

I'm Ella. In addition to podcast creator and host of On Air with Ella since 2015, I am Managing Partner of The Trivista Group, a strategic communications consulting firm that I co-founded in 2003. I'm a professional activational speaker, competitive age-group triathlete, and co-Founder of the women's non-profit ZivaVoices.com.

Whether it's your business or personal life, my goal is to bring you resources that help you get more of what you want, and less of what you don't.